I came across this question in a blog site: Why can't I find a good guy? The girl in this article sounded a lot like some old friends of mine. I can't really say much about this gal but you can check out what she has to say here: http://dearsugar.com/1541370
I loved the response that was given regarding going through Man-Frenzy Detox.
I really think my old friends should read this. Every time I would hang out with them some way the topic of getting a guy came up. I admit that at times I am the one who brings up the boy stitch but usually it’s just cuz i know it’s gonna be brought up. But that is what the talk is about who is the latest guy, latest make out buddy, latest guy you got with at a bar, latest guy you slept with...there life seems to revolve around getting a guy. I thought for a while there something was wrong with me because yeah I liked guys but it wasn't the main focus in my life. I could never see myself as a needy person. If a guy likes me he has to put forth a lot of effort to get my attention and then keep it. I will make the effort in hanging out with him but it has to be on my terms. If I don't feel well I am not going to go over even if you beg. And I always feel like I can leave at anytime...maybe I have more of an independent perspective in this because if I have someone great and if not oh well. So next time you are asking yourself why you can’t find a good guy remember...1) you are acting to needy 2) you met them at a bar or 3) you scared them all away.